The Power of Toddler Imitation and Gestures

The Power of Toddler Imitation and Gestures

Before toddlers ever use spoken words to communicate, they use their hands. Early physical imitation skills are the literal foundation for verbal speech. If a child can copy a physical gesture, they are building the neurological pathways needed to eventually imitate a spoken word.

16 Gestures by 16 Months

Developed by the FIRST WORDS Project, the “16 by 16” milestone is a critical benchmark for early language development. It shows that a child’s social communication and imitation skills are right on track.

The Milestone Trajectory:

  • 9–10 Months (Early Intentionality): Giving items to adults, shaking their head “no”, and reaching to be picked up.

  • 11–12 Months (Showing & Pointing): Flashing an object to show you, pointing to objects of interest, and waving “bye-bye.”

  • 13–14 Months (Symbolic Gestures): Clapping to show excitement, blowing a kiss, or putting a finger to their lips to say “shh.”

  • 15–16 Months (Functional Play): High-fives, nodding “yes”, shrugging shoulders (“where did it go?”), and using symbolic gestures like a thumbs up.

Developmental research shows that the number of gestures a child uses at 14 months directly predicts their vocabulary size at 24 months. Furthermore, around this age, toddlers start combining a gesture with a word (like pointing to a cup and saying "juice"). The appearance of these gesture-plus-word combinations directly predicts the onset of two-word spoken sentences ("want juice") about 4 to 5 months later.

Words come from gestures. If you want to increase a toddler’s verbal imitation, start by matching, validating, and expanding their physical imitation!